My life is not the usual cut and dry mundane life that a lot of people tend to live. I like to think my life is full of wonder and exploration. For me my life is ever changing, and very few things are constant. There simply is no box that I perfectly fit into, and to try would be like trying to shove a large sphere in a small square box.
First, and foremost I am a genderfluid demiboy, though I was assigned female at birth, and “pass” as female I am not solely female. So what exactly does that mean? For me, it means that sometimes I am a woman, sometimes I am a man, and sometimes I am androgynous. I do not mean that sometimes I feel manly; in every internal sense, I am a man in those moments. My partner noticed that I hold myself differently, walk differently, speak differently, even interact with people differently depending on my gender identification. This isn’t the same as being transgender, as I do not feel that I am always one gender. There are many times where I experience very acute gender dysphoria (female pronouns, looking very female, etc. when I am male or androgynous), but, when I am female, I don’t.
While we are on that topic, I prefer gender neutral pronouns such as; they, them, and their. I have found that these are the easiest for my friends and family to use.
Please do not refer to me as a female, and if you do my accident please just correct yourself and continue on.
Next, I am already married to a wonderful man that I am blessed to call not only my husband, but also my Dominant. Our dynamic is that of a D/s power exchange lifestyle with a dash of a Daddy Dominant & Little flare. We are both non-monogamous and prefer to be polyamorous in our relationships.
With that being said we aren’t yet another couple looking for a mystical unicorn in the land of donkey’s with plunger attached to their heads. We are both looking for our own relationships to add to our relationship. Ideally I’m looking for a submissive partner, but I am open to exploring other dynamics.
Last, but surely not least I am on the path of a Christo-Pagan. I have never met another that is on this path, but I hope to one day.
More about me… I love books, loud music, and video games. I love southern gentlemen, southern ladies, and guns. I like the government to stay the fuck out of my business, and especially from between my legs. I have a pretty great life. I am quite serious about my career, which seems to be heading in some interesting directions. I value and respect personal privacy and self-sufficiency above all else.